The classic, with endless automotive experience, and what does he do... he trades everything

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I work in a completely different field, but I'd like to try and help out.
"A new DPF for €250 seems no better to me than a full, original part."
2. Chemical cleaning - loading...? So, let's first address the ash mass in the filter. At 250,000 km, it might be at its maximum fill level. A simple search here in the forum will reveal many tricks to save money. You can clean this thing... here's a small tip.
3. Parts Replacement Spree: Why were the Turbocharger, Power Distribution (PD) elements, Nozzle Washers (NW), and control valves replaced? Was there simply too much money available, or was there a strong desire to tinker? What were the indicators that led to this?
Here's another tip: It seems you have access to diagnostic equipment. Therefore, perform an auto-scan according to the forum rules. Then, log the relevant parameters and show them to us.
After that, please arrange your story chronologically so that we know what happened to the cart.
As an uninformed reader, I assume that because of the high boost pressure, you replaced everything, and you still have too much boost pressure... Or, you replaced the turbocharger, and now you have too much boost pressure. Please explain to us, in simple sentences without flowery language, what happened, when, and in what order, and then we can proceed.