What does it cost to have something like that made (ideally as a Gursteil, as an alternative made of stainless steel ?
For the adapter plate, standard St37 steel (now designated St360) is usually sufficient. I'm not really supposed to advertise here, but if you don't have the means to do it yourself, you can send me a cardboard template, and I will manufacture the adapter plate for you; everything else can be discussed via private message

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Regarding the exhaust manifold, the question is whether the outlet channels are the same for all 1.9 engines (in terms of both shape and diameter), although there are different bore sizes for the threaded holes on the flanges.
As far as I know, only the 2.0 TDI engines had angled flanges on the cylinder head.
Here is a photo where the adapter plate can be seen: http://www.bilder-hosting.de/img/0FUZC.jpghttp://www.bilder-hosting.de/img/0FVHN.jpg