Not all updates are available online; in the case of door control units, as mentioned before, only parts of the software (configuration) are updated, rather than a complete flash. This means that the process is carried out using guided functions within the VAS tester and not via SVM/online. The relevant TPL document 2014232 describes the exact procedure – your dealer should actually check their computer and read up on this; otherwise, they will constantly appear as if they know nothing.
> Function/component selection.
Bodywork.
Body assembly work.
> 01 - Systems capable of self-diagnosis.
Driver's side door electronics.
> Functions of the driver's side door control unit.
> Adjustment of the driver-side door control module.
I'll skip describing the procedure for the other door control units, as it's essentially the same process.
Regarding the point of "just doing updates," most people don't want updates simply for the sake of it, and unfortunately, you often see this mentioned in reviews of many retailers. Of course, it's easy to fall into the trap of updating everything without thinking about the specific issue being addressed, but one thing is clear: new software versions are not released arbitrarily. Ultimately, your retailer is the key player here, and they hold more power, but often it comes down to their approach and how they interact with customers.
Regarding the rain/light sensor, you still have the AE installed - a component from Bosch - which has now been replaced by AB - a component from TRW. It's up to each individual to decide what they think about that.

I had the AE in my Octavia and experienced massive problems with the windshield wiper behavior, so I insisted on replacing it with an AB unit, and sure enough, the problem was solved. As for the light sensor behavior, I don't recall any significant issues, but I must add that I always drive with daytime running lights (now via the taillights), so this only affected me to a limited extent.
Regarding the comfort settings, you could try clearing the learning values in the combination instrument (adaptation channel 000). While there is a new software version available for your comfort control unit, I don't yet have any specific information about when and how this would be used.
Please describe your DWA problem in more detail.