Hello!
Unfortunately, I haven't found a solution to my problem with the automatic transmission in any forum, but I believe I've found the best place to post about it here.
My VW Passat TDI 1.9L 81 kW (AFN) – Automatic transmission, 4G type 01N - manufactured in 1997, currently with 196,000 km.
At a mileage of 165,000 km, the following problems occurred:
Between 1800 and 2400 RPM in the 3rd and 4th gears, at a constant speed, there is a pulsating engagement and disengagement of the torque converter. (RPM fluctuations of 150 RPM). A noticeable jerking of the clutch is also felt, as well as a sudden disconnection of the torque converter starting at approximately 3800 RPM under full load.
Error code indicated: Faulty torque converter coupling!
VAG workshop recommended a new transmission (a consumable part like an oil filter? But unfortunately, it's too expensive!).
So, VAG is dismantling the transmission. Automatik Berger GmbH in Oberostendorf (a great company) is rebuilding the transmission, including a new torque converter and shift sleeve assembly.
VAG is building again.
And everything is perfect again, running like new.
Unfortunately, only
20,000 km 
, and the same problems again. I can't make it through every 20,000 km with a new one.
ATF Menge und Zustand im Getriebe sind ok , kein Fehler z. Stored in memory.
Kann es nicht sein, dass das Getriebe i.O. ist und nur wie in manchen Postings beschrieben falsche Sensorwerte oder Daten, eine falsche Anpassung einen zu kleinen Öldruck auf die WK geben? Or what?
Who can help me avoid having to replace my transmission?
Best regards from the coast.
Hein
